Is Homosexuality a Sin?
Is Homosexuality a sin?
Undoubtedly this is the most controversial teen Bile lesson I’ve ever published as Youth Pastors and theologians spar with each other as well as the LBGQ+ community’s vocal spokespeople in there push for fair treatment in our society today.
Without input from any source but The Bible we take a look at references to homosexuality to determine why this issue creates such a firestorm of controversy.
How should Christians respond to Homosexuals?
So, how should Christians respond? Is homosexuality a sin in the Bible?
Yes, but…
Homosexuality is named in Leviticus as a sin for the Israelite’s along with 613 other rules. Some of these rules seem trivial to us today. Cloths made of two types of material, trimming the sides of your beard, and tattoos were prohibited while slavery was allowed. Seems a little silly.
Do we just disregard the laws given to the Israelite’s then?
Paul says in Romans that it was thru the law that we became conscious of our sin and that everyone has messed up. Everyone.
Homosexuality is no worse than any other sin. We are encouraged, in Philippians 2, to consider everyone better than ourselves. This includes homosexuals. We’re not more special to God just because we attend church.
Didn’t Jesus’ death cover all sins? It did indeed. The Corinthians realized that since there was no condemnation they were free to do anything. Paul did not disagree with that but warned them that some actions, like sexual immorality, had negative effects. He also pointed out that since the Holy Spirit lives in us we should never drag Him into such actions.
Why does sexual immorality survive as a major taboo?
In Acts 15 the Jewish council met to talk about Gentiles being allowed to be saved by their Christ. They decided that only five laws would be placed on the gentiles and one was to refrain from sexual immorality. In Romans 1 Paul also says that homosexuality was a punishment for those who denied God.
Is Homosexuality within “normal” parameters for humans?
Researches see that there are many genes involved in a persons sexual preferences. Social and environmental factors also play a role. (Sexual abuse can also be a factor so keep your senses open for that.)
The photo compares the tallest woman and the shortest man demonstrating a huge range of height considered within the “normal” range for people. Having six fingers and toes is also considered within the normal range for humans.
Homosexuality could therefore be considered a normal variant of human sexuality. The argument follows, then, that homosexuality in not a sin either. That makes perfect sense in human understanding.
But, the Bible says homosexuality is a sin. Here’s where people get hostile. Nobody likes being called a sinner. Even Christians and Christian Youth Pastors (who you think understand the gospel message) get really angry that I’d have the nerve to call homosexuals sinners. “It’s not even their fault! It’s normal!”
“You can’t tell a kid they’re a sinner,” they spit. In their rush to not offend they forget that all are sinners saved by grace. It doesn’t matter the sin deeds. Whether it be overeating, child abuse, or homosexuality. Without grace we’re all screwed. There is no difference.
See my Teen Bible Lessons Sin and Sin Nature if you need a theological refresher.
Being a sinner doesn’t mean you’re a bad person.
On the contrary. Knowing you are a sinner can keep you humble which makes you more inclined to treat others with respect. But people immediately jump to the conclusion that if you call them a sinner you are damming them to hell.
Dude, with out Jesus you are dammed to hell. Doesn’t matter what you do.
Here is a good YouTube® video about sexual identity:
Jackie Hill Perry—poet and hip-hop artist—explains in this video what Christians need to know about sexual identity if their children seem confused.
Finally, Here is my Teen Bible: Lesson: Is Homosexuality a Sin?
Society is pushing hard to normalize alternative lifestyles. By now you may have kids in your youth group who identify as gay, trans, bi, or other sexual labels. How do you stick to Biblical values without alienating those emerging adults?
Want to do a Bible lesson on the topic but haven’t had the time to formulate a careful response? Download this free youth group Bible lesson and see if it works for you.
Love your kids without compromising your values. This is a two page lesson plan with leaders guide and pre-lesson activity to illustrate the point.
I have had to delete comments on this blog from “youth pastors” that at best were rude and bordered on verbal harassment complete with homophobic language. It seems that the subject of your own personal sin compared to the biblical standard is a topic that is not allowed in “Christian” circles.
Excellent study.
Just felt like I should mention that homosexuality being a sin is only mentioned in the translated version of the bible. Prior to these translations it states “Man shall not lie with young boys as he does a woman, for it is an abomination”. pointing more towards pedophilia being a sin rather than homosexuality.
Hi Amelia. Thanks for you comment. My feeling is that in human terms their are different kinds of sin and some are worse than others. It makes sense to us. But God’s view might be that sin is sin. It all crosses the line. Even just being a human (having a sin nature) is enough. But, Jesus takes away the sin of the world so everyone can come to Him in whatever condition they’re in. We can not deny sin but we can not withhold forgiveness either.
Wow! This was exactly what every pastor should be teaching our children. Thank you for helping me find the words to teach on own children.
This is the best teaching material I have seen on this sensitive subject. I applaud your courage in bringing it out in the open and dealing with the issues in a loving, kind and gentle way. I am curious if you have had students in your classes who have admitted to having feelings of attraction to someone of the same biological gender, attraction to both biological genders etc. It is wonderful to emphasize God’s love and forgiveness of sing whether that sin is lying, bitterness, sexual immorality, murder or what. However, most Christians would, while of course emphasizing that we need to love everyone, while we agree that we are sinners (as Paul and others clearly did, even at one time saying he was chief of sinners) we are to strive to become more Christlike, to repent of sin and endeavor not to practice sin (engage in it habitually) and when we know something is sin we are to try to engage in it less, while at the same time acknowledging that we can’t generally do it ourselves, we need God’s help, and knowing that if we fall God will forgive and continue to love and accept us and help us. So having said that, what would you say to a student who says, “I love my partner (same gender or other issue) so if God loves me and forgives me do I have to give up the relationship? I know Christians who have lived the lesbian or homosexual lifestyle for many years and then come out of it. I don’t agree with things like conversion therapy either just to be clear. I know God can help people stop committing various sins. I know others who attend churches where most of the members are part of the lgbtq comunity. These churches exist in several cities and are called “Cathedral of Hope”. I have visited those churches. The people are very kind and caring and accepting. Some of them believe that they will not gain acceptance in other Christian churches and they say they hqave a vibrant relationship with Jesus and they serve him in that church. So how would you respond to all of this? I am not bringing this up to antagonize or cause trouble because as I said I do admire your courage and strength in even discussing all of this when it can be such an emotional and laden topic. But I would like to know your thoughts because I have many family members and friends who are involved in various “alternative lifestyles” when it comes to sexual behaviors/preferences. Thank you so much for your consideration
Dear Marda:
I have had kids in my Sunday School classes that viewed themselves as other than their biological gender. I have also had kids who were racist and homophobes. I believe Jesus takes away the sin of the world (John 1:29). Everyone’s sin. Anyone can now come to God. The lines of communication are open. I don’t think it means that everyone will get into heaven in the end. That, of course, requires belief in Jesus. That part is God’s business alone, not mine or anyone else’s. We are commanded to love others as ourselves even if they are in the midst of sin. Words like loving others often cause arguments in minitae which I don’t have time to discuss here. Leave it to say, I had words with the racist kids and protected the others insisting on mutual respect.
I hope that offers some insight into my feeling on the subject.